Who defines you?

Are your relationships prescriptive or descriptive of who you are?

Many say we are defined by the 5 people closest to us.

So . . . If we don’t like who we have become and are feeling less than authentic, do we first, then, take a close look at our “friends”?

What’s this say about our Facebook “friends”?

Not a day passes when I don’t read a litany of political and social banter akin to the clash of the Titans.

Everyone is right and everyone is wrong.

Invariably, someone reaches the saturation point and declares intent to unplug from Facebook until “things settle down”.

Well . . . Guess what?

There will always be “things” for the rabble rousers to pontificate.

Why leave the party?

Why not simply “unfriend” the offenders?

Don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Gravitate towards those whose company you enjoy.

Because one the marvelous things about life is that “things never settle down”

Be who you are and not who you think others want you to be.

There now . . . I said it!

I love you for who you really are!


Published by Barry Owen

Strategist-CEO of Pareto Realty Real estate sales Professional Inviter-Facilitator-Practicer of Open Space Technology Opening safe space for people & organizations to self-organize around issues & opportunities BarryOwen.US Invite-Listen-Love

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  1. So good to see I online. Having MUCH trouble with phones. Internet but thanks for the heads up on how we are defined that first sentence describes one of the problems ::it should read “”You online “”” ha ha ha

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